Sifu Stoddart: Amazing!!

Tuesday, August 14, 2012

Amazing!!

I did it. I actually did it! It took me over a year, but I did it. I attended the sparring class tonight. I have been wanting to do that for so long now, and just couldn't muster up the courage to do it. . . . . till tonight. While chatting with Sifu Harrigan outside of the kwoon one day, he strongly encouraged me to attend the sparring class, so tonight I did, and I thank Sifu for that. I thought about backing out, but realized I needed to give my support to Sifu as much as I needed to be there for me.

My heart was pounding and my nerves were shaking, but I am so glad that I put all that aside and didn't let it beat me. I learned so much by watching and listening, and I learned tons by participating. Sifu Harrigan is very knowledgeable and he knew things that I had no idea about. He taught me a lot tonight. The students did not beat the snot out of me, but instead gave me many opportunities to put into play some things that I have been trying to work on. I especially was trying to practice with the pointers I got from Sifu Brinker at the black belt class on Friday night. Some of the students tonight gave me pointers too, and I welcomed and appreciated that. I have so much to learn as far as sparring, and I have such a long ways to go with my confidence. At least I am headed in the right direction.

I thought it would have been nice to have some other members of the UBBT in the class, and I am determined to spread the word. It would have been great to have more black belts there too. I am really pumped up with excitement from going to this class and I am so very glad that I finally took that plunge and went. It shouldn't have taken me this long, but better now than never. KIAAAAAA!!!!

1 comment:

Sifu Robyn Kichko said...: Totally cool! I wish I could have been there:); August 15, 2012 at 4:29 PM

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My 20 Wishes. . .I want to do:
1. Vacation in a cabin in the mountains.
2. Fall in love.
3. Travel somewhere exotic.
4. Buy a motorcycle.
5. Write my life story.
6. Take my kids and grandkids to Disneyland.
7. See my dad again and have him meet my kids, and grandkids,
8. Hike the West Coast Trail. (done)
9. Buy my own home.
10. Climb a Via Ferrata. (done)
11. Have corrective eye surgery.
12. Find a reason to trust. (Done)
13. Perform with chi.
14. Go caving.(done)
15. Learn to play piano again.
16. Go Skinny Dipping. (done)
17. Take swimming lessons.
18. Take a wood working class.
19. Take Ballroom dance lessons.
20. Straighten my front teeth.

My 20 Wishes. . .I want to be:
1. Conscious
2. Loyal
3. Faithful
4. Good parent
5. Respectful
6. Talented martial artist
7. Healthy
8. Physically fit
9. Reliable
10. Trustworthy
11. A good grandparent
12. Awakened
13. Honest
14. Independent
15. Strong of character
16. Confident
17. A leader
18. Uplifting to others
19. Full of a positive countenance
20. Free from suffering

I love adventures, and experiencing new things for the first time. Never has this been more true than in the experiences I get from kung fu. Earning a black belt seemed to be all about me. I sacrificed, worked real hard, disciplined myself, and grew to new heights I never thought possible. I watched my life change before my very eyes. Not just small changes, but big ones that even I noticed.

Being a black belt seems to be more about others. I help others to meet their potential through their own sacrifice, and determination. As I do this, I find great fulfillment watching others change the shape of their lives, and find their own sense of peace. Black belts are just ordinary people, but doing extraordinary things, at an extraordinary level. Through this realization, we start to evolve from black belts to true martial artists, with a passion for the art that we strive to pass on to others. We continue on our path of progression, but it is through our sacrifice towards others that changes occur.

I have a huge testimony of what we do at Silent River Kung Fu. I rejoice every time I teach a class, especially the beginners, and my heart swells when I see the future of kung fu in the excited eyes of the students. By helping these students find a new way to look at life, we help them become better individuals, through their own realization of self worth. This in turn builds stronger communities, and a much more positive world to live in. When we fully understand that, we start to look outside of the kung fu box, and begin to see that vision of what we are really doing as we teach kung fu. Instead of just seeing the techniques and the forms, the mistakes people do and the improvements people need to make, we start to finally see...the people.

Students come to Silent River Kung Fu because they have this idea that learning martial arts is fun. They keep coming back because it is fun. What most students don't even realise, is that they also keep coming back because here they feel respected, cared about, and they receive a sense of belonging. What is the first thing we do when we taste something really good? We try to get someone else to taste it by saying, "wow! You've got to try this." It is important to give all students, whether they are new or not, that experience that will make them say, "you've got to try this." Every student that walks through the front door should feel like they are a part of our kung fu family. We can do that by seeing...the people. Watching with an eye for detail, to see their needs, their emotions, their strengths, and their apprehensions. Only by doing that can we really begin to teach, and help shape the lives of others. From my own experience, I believe this to be the only way to progress to that next level as a martial artist. I believe it, I have experienced it, I trust it.